They're doing it for attention!

"They're just doing it for attention."

Thankfully this isn't something I come across often, even with parents stretched thin. More often I hear parents say "You wouldn't believe the amount of attention my child needs, I'm exhausted, I just can't keep it up. I can't remember the last time I had a cup of tea in peace." Overwhelmed by all the jobs that need doing. Burnt out from lack of self care. And feeling guilty for not being able to keep pouring into their child.

If this is you, you're right: your child isn't being manipulative, they need to know that you see them, hear them, and delight in them. Give them what you can. And if you can't right now, let them know that you see the need, that you love spending times with them, and that you will when you can. What a lovely way to communicate that you see their need, can meet their need, and also that you have a little faith in their ability to manage those times where they have to wait.

I don't have all the answers but I totally get the struggle. Answers on a postcard if you've found a solution. And if not then just know you're not alone.